So you decided your getting married in Hawaii, who do you invite?
It is actually much easier to create a guest list for a wedding in Hawaii because it is much smaller. You don’t bother inviting 4th cousin Francine and her husband Bob, because you know they wouldn’t come anyway. You focus on the people who really mean a lot to you and had a big impression on your life and the people who really put a smile on your face and create an air of fun. Letting go of those extraneous guests really makes you wedding much more memorable having the A-Team of your friends and family at your wedding. Don’t feel bad that your wedding time won’t be taken up by small talk conversations with people you haven’t seen in 15 years and you probably won’t see for another 15 years, you love those people too, just in an extended family sort of way.
So do the slashing to your guest list you really wish you could do even if you weren’t getting married in Hawaii. Invite the people who mean the most to you and really add joy to your life and you will be on the right track to having the most amazing wedding ever.